Actually, what is the definition of love? I think everyone has their own concept and perception about this. It just like guys and chicks interpret love differently. For guys, love= active sex life (that just for some low-life guys only, not me); for chicks, love= romance of eternity (whew, sounds like some lovey-dovey vampire story, but I still stand at this side). For me, love is not just any physical contact (eye contact and touch) with the opposite sex, love includes everything spiritually and emotionally. Chicks love sweet words and presents from guys. However, some guys thought that the best gift for their beloved chicks is sex.
Personally, I think sex just exists after love and romance, which really takes time and effort to develop. To fall in love with a chick is quite easy, but the most troublesome thing is how you maintain the courtship. If a hot-looking guy going to a club and just hooked on a chick so easily (just like finger-snapping), then spending a night of kamasutra at some hotels. I’m sure that the love chemical doesn’t exist in between of them. Another possibility is that the chick must be must a brainless one (of course she’s not a blonde, but being fooled by the casanova’s outward appearance is dumbass enough) or she may be selling off herself to earn a living (that’s right, a hooker/prostitute). In a nutshell, this can be concluded that sometimes men’s sexual urge acts faster than their brain (but the pure intention of the casanova is just SEX and LUST); whereas almost 90% of chicks just cannot have their brains function properly (really melt like butter, I think), when they meet some good-looking guys (most of them are vampire craze for lust only) who talk flowery words.
As a conclusion, couples nowadays fell in love (some married) easily, but also easily break up (divorced) as well. I saw it with my eyes and experienced it myself. Here is an advice for all my friends (guys and chicks): Appreciate the people that you really fall in love with, and don’t forget to invest some time and cash to maintain the relationship. The most important is how much effort you paid in to really own his/her heart.
